Friday, November 20, 2009

Precious: Movie Review

I'd been patiently waiting to see "Precious based on the novel Push by Sapphire". Finally, it arrived in my two horse town. I was so excited by all of the rave reviews that as I rode to the theatre I literally had to settle myself down so I wouldn't set too high of an expectation. I hate when I get all jazzed to see something and walk out sorely disappointed. Such was not the case this time. Still, as we pulled up to the theatre I was deprogramming my mind.

There was a security guard at the entrance stopping every car. The theatre was packed at three in the afternoon on a Friday. Based on the demographics of the area I live in, I was seriously doubting if the crowd was there for the movie Precious. I was certain these were folks eager to see New Moon. The female guard directed cars to the only available parking spaces in the back of the large lot. I was blown away that there was a sizable crowd standing in line and a news crew close by. I knew fans of the Twilight series were in a frenzy for the sequel, but I live in a smaller city and didn't expect such pandemonium. I was just glad we'd purchased our tickets in advance for the movie I'd been waiting for and even called the toll-free number from the web site to demand. And even though it didn't feature any vampires it did have Mary Jones and she's much more frightening because unfortunately she's real.

Some people may not like to come to a movie with me. I only go to the show when I really want to see the movie otherwise I will either fall asleep in the theatre from boredom or just wait on Netflix. And, I like to arrive at least thirty minutes ahead of time to ensure a seat half way up and in the middle of the row. What I refer to as the middle middle. Afterward, I need to discuss the film until I'm lost for words and repeating myself. So, as we sat through previews of Sherlock Holmes, the final season of Lost, and the A&E Jackson Five reality show finally Precious starts. From the opening credits, which are intentionally misspelled, until close, I was blown away. In a word, it was chilling and that's the best word I can think of to describe the movie and many of the performances. I literally felt like I was a fly on the wall of Claireece Precious Jones's life, a sixteen year old, three-hundred pound illiterate girl living in 80's Harlem pregnant with her second child and in the words of Precious, "an insect survivor" (She means incest). But don't laugh and don't judge until you've lived a day in her shoes and after viewing this movie you will feel as if you have. The scenes with Claireece and her mother Mary Jones, at times, had me clutching my chest from the sheer shock. And every single time Claireece had to step foot back inside her mother's apartment, I literally felt fear...for her...for children like her who live under a cloud of abuse. Yet, for Precious, it was her life and she found ways to mental escape and survive what many wouldn't have been able to.

Unfortunately, this story is real for far too many children. And, as I was watching Precious, I couldn't help but think of five year old Shaniya Davis whose partially clothed body was found Monday near deer carcasses underneath kudzo plants along a rural highway not far from Fayetteville, North Carolina. I've been following this case via Nancy Grace. Her mother, Antoinette Davis, is in custody charged with human trafficking and felony child abuse. Allegedly, selling her to Mario McNeal to pay for a drug debt. Shaniya was raped and murdered the same day that she was seen on hotel surveillance being carried by Mario McNeal to a hotel room. I still can't get the image of Shaniya, a little defenseless girl, in that man's arms from my mind. So, yes, sadly, there are children living the life of Precious Jones and unfortunately Shaniya Davis is one tragic example.

Was this film hard to watch? Absolutely. Did I cry? Yes, a few times. But there were also many lighthearted, humorous moments in the film that had me laughing. I can't say enough about Lee Daniel's direction. I've been a fan of Mr. Daniels since Shadowboxer. However, this film is his masterpiece. And, as a writer, I have so much respect for Sapphire who crafted such a raw and powerful piece of fiction that it feels real because as I said earlier it is. Precious based on the novel Push by Sapphire invites viewers inside a world that for some may be too familiar to stand but for all will seem honest and painful and at times emotionally draining. But we're only faced with it for two hours and ten minutes and there are children who live that life every day.

Newcomer Gabourey Sidibe performed like an Oscar-winning veteran and perhaps that's because she's destined to become one. It was hard to believe this was her first acting role. Mo'nique's performance was faultless and displayed her range. Betty from Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins (which was hilarious by the way) wasn't the woman sitting in that chair in her living room caring for her cats better than she did her own child. She was Mary Jones and there was no doubt about that. After watching this movie, you will understand why so many people say Mo'nique deserves an Oscar once you see this film. And she better get one. I wouldn't go so far as to say Mo'nique's performance as Mary Jones made the movie, because there are so many outstanding layers and performances in this film. The entire cast did a phenomenal job. Even those with small supporting roles. What Mo'nique did was bring Mary Jones to life and make her unforgettable. I still get chills thinking about her. And I truly believe this film is going to help a lot of people.

Precious based on the novel Push by Sapphire deserves ten stars on a scale of one to five, should not be missed, and in my mind will be hard to top.

As we walked out of the theatre I discovered what drew the camera crew and long lines outside. Turns out it had nothing to do with New Moon. John Travolta, his wife Kelly, and their daughter were all in attendance for a red carpet gala premiere of Old Dogs. Guess my town isn't so two-horse after all.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Can Castor Oil Grow Lashes?

Is it just my imagination or are my eyelashes getting longer? I have always wanted long eyelashes. If I knew how to put on fake lashes I'd wear them everyday, but I don't so I don't wear them at all. And even though I found some really good mascara at Sephora after a couple weeks it starts to clump on my lashes and whenever I remove my mascara some of my lashes come out too. Maybe that's why a lot of men have naturally long lashes because they don't use mascara, fake lashes, lash curlers or eye makeup. Just a theory.

So, yesterday I went into Walmart and took a stroll down the beauty aisle. It took me roughly ten minutes just to decide on the right mascara and I didn't even need the mascara just the brush. I was looking for a brush that wasn't stuck inside of the mascara bottle so I could have a clean brush to use with my Jamaican black Castor oil and to my surprise there were quite a few packaged that way. I purchased L'Oreal's Telescopic Explosion not because I wanted to try their new breakthrough mascara (like I said I have a great tube of mascara that lasts for two weeks), but because I wanted to try their patented Flexi-Globe brush that applies from every angle to use with my Jamaican Black Castor Oil. Up to this point, I was using my index finger to apply the Jamaican Black Castor Oil to my eyelashes and eyebrows at night. By the way, the nail on that finger grew too and this is a nail that often breaks because I type so much but it is very strong now so I will also use my black Castor oil as a nail treatment.

What I know for sure is that the Jamaican Black Castor Oil has thickened my eyebrows because I no longer need to fill them in with my Anastasia brow powder and I would typically fill my eyebrows daily. I started noticing a slight difference after just a few days, but after two weeks I was certain it was working. And I also know it made my nail grow. As for my lashes, I'm not sure yet, I think so but it's hasn't been as easy to apply black Castor oil to my lashes using my finger as it was to my eyebrows. The Castor oil is somewhat thick. Thus, my quest for a clean mascara brush. Now, that I have the brush I should be able to tell if it's working in four to six weeks.

I bought the Castor oil online from http://www.sams247.com/ after doing some in depth Google research and visiting a few hair boards. A lot of ladies on hair forums use Castor oil to thicken their hair so initially I purchased it for that reason since I recently cut all the relaxer from my hair and I'm only one month natural. The recommendations on the hair board is to apply the Castor oil to your hair twice a week. Some say they mix it with their conditioner and then wash it out. Not only natural ladies use Castor oil for their hair. A lot of these ladies have relaxers. Some ladies who relax their hair use it for growth and to stretch their time between touch-ups. Some say it softens their new growth. Some say it's made their hair thicker. Others massage the Castor oil onto their scalp for growth. Some use the regular Castor oil and swear by that. After further research I decided on the Jamaican black Castor oil. It's harder to tell what's working on my hair because right now at this stage my hair seems to love water (conditioner washes) the most followed by coconut oil and Shea butter. I'm in the process of eliminating some of the many products I've purchased since going natural and sticking with just those that work the best for my hair type. And what I've noticed is so far that seems to be those things that are unrefined/organic (no chemicals added)

Another miracle worker is African black soap. If you don't know about that you better google it. I'm blogging on that and Shea butter next.

Just google Jamaican Black Castor Oil and see what you come up with. Like I said I know for sure my eyebrows have gotten thicker, but I'll have to give it more time on my lashes now that I have a proper tool to apply it.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

The Best Sleep I've had in Months


So many people complain that they can't get a good night's sleep. That's usually not the case for me, but lately I haven't wanted to go to bed until three, four, sometimes five in the morning. I guess I'm still trying to get adjusted to being off work coupled with the fact that when it was getting close to my writing deadline for my manuscript When I Get Where I'm Going I was writing sometimes until seven in the morning. But after I turned my manuscript in last month, I started having trouble sleeping. I tried pacifying myself with television, but Thursday is the only night I watch television really with the exception of Oprah. Finally, the last few nights I've had the best sleep ever after using Dr. Weil's Night Health Bedtime Face Cream. In fact, the night before last I had a dream that turned into the concept for my next book project. Needless to say, I'm very excited about that!

The Origin's web site claims:

√ 88% felt smoother skin
√ 66% were measurably more relaxed after inhaling the Night Health™ aroma.

During deep sleep, this rich, skin-rebuilding and recovery complex with Buckbean and St. Paul’s Wort Extracts helps release tense-looking skin and visible lines. In clinical tests, skin was measurably brighter, more radiant. And to help ensure you get the restful night you need to accomplish intensive repair, Dr. Weil’s proven, soothing blend of 100% natural Chamomile, Lavender and Mandarin essential oils relaxes mind, body and spirit before bed. After a more restful night skin awakens refreshed and revitalized.

*Best for sensitive, combination/dry skin

So, if you're having trouble sleeping like so many people complain of these days I'd definitely recommend Dr. Weil's Night Health Bedtime Face Cream.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Magic Star Jumbo Rake Comb


Maybe I'm behind and everyone already knows about this web site, but I didn't. I found out about Hotcombs.net through a YouTube video review of the Magic Star Rake comb. If you're looking for the perfect comb as I was now that I've transitioned my relaxed hair and I'm 100% natural then let me suggest the Magic Star Jumbo rake comb. Whether your hair is natural or relaxed I think you will LOVE this comb and the web site for other choices for your hair. The company operates out of Chicago, Illinois and acts as a distributor for several German brands. The Magic star Rake comb comes in jumbo and mini. I purchased the mini version, but I think I want the jumbo one also and I'll keep the mini for my purse and use the jumbo as my shower comb when I comb through my conditioner. I must admit that I'm a product junkie and I've tried many different combs and brushes, but I was never satisfied with any of them. Magic star is the brand name and if you don't like rake combs they have nine different styles. From my understanding, the Magic Star combs are sold exclusively online through hotcombs.net.

I also purchased a Hercules Sagemann square paddle brush in walnut. The brush is sold on hotcombs.net and this is the perfect brush. When I brush my hair with this Sagemann brush I feel the polyamide pins massaging my scalp. I opted for the brush that came with both boar bristles and polyamide pins. For a detailed description of the brush click here. I also bought a satin pillowcase from hotcombs.net. Here's the story on that, a lady by the name of Tasha phoned me from hotcombs.net for some clarification on my order and she was so nice that I decided to add some additional products to my order, because originally I just ordered the Magic Star mini rake comb, but after talking to Tasha I added the paddle brush, pillowcase, and a satin sleep cap. I'm a sucker for good customer service because it's so rare that I experience it. She asked me if I had any questions and I told her I was going to buy a satin pillowcase but I noticed it was $25. So I asked if the cost was so high because it came in a set of four or something. Okay, in retrospect that may have been a stupid question because perhaps $25 isn't expensive for a quality pillowcase but when you're used to spending $5 for your satin pillowcase at Sally's like I am and use it just to slip over one of your regular pillowcases I couldn't imagine why one would cost $25. She asked if the satin pillowcase I was using had a side zipper and I told her it did. She explained that she was very familiar with that satin pillowcase and without insulting me she basically said I was using a cheap one and that their pillowcases were of much higher quality and didn't have side zippers which she personally found to be annoying. I will say the satin pillowcase they sell looks 100% better than the one I purchased from Sally's and it feels better too. Another thing I liked was that they have a variety of colors and you have the option to monogram and it comes in a satin carrying case.

Also, Tasha made a good point when she stated that the holidays are approaching and that their products make for excellent and unique gifts as well. To visit their site click here.


To view the YouTube video I watched that sold me on the Magic Star comb see below. She shows the comb and reviews it starting at the 2:41 mark.








Monday, October 5, 2009

Transitioning My Relaxed Hair

I've been transitioning my relaxed hair for just seven weeks and it's such a struggle only because I have a tendency to be impatient once I make up my mind I want to do something. I really just want to go to a salon that specializes in natural hair and have them do a bc (big chop). I've been scouring youtube for suggestions on transitioning from relaxed hair and there are so many forums and youtube videos that help with this process. I found a good video on transitioning to natural hair (below). As a back up, I do have the name and phone number of a stylist in my area who I spoke to earlier today who can transition my relaxed hair by cutting all the relaxed hair out and leaving me with just my natural hair, but she stressed that I had to be comfortable with the length of my new growth before she does that and she suggested that I take my time maybe three to five months and if I can't deal with the two textures to come see her. In the meantime, I'm going to grow out of my relaxed hair by doing twist outs. This involves braiding my washed/towel dried hair and taking the braids out in the morning. I'm going to use Carol's Daughter Hair Milk to help define the curls which I know will look better when all my permed hair is gone. Right now I'm washing my hair once a week and I haven't been successful trying to do my own twist outs so I'm going to have a friend actually braid my hair today.

Hopefully, by the spring I'll have my own video to share with you. But until then please enjoy this one that I found on youtube. The young lady has great tips for those transitioning or interested in transitioning. And I love her natural hair! If any one has any hair tips for me please email me at newfictionwriter@msn.com.


Thursday, September 24, 2009

Let's Celebrate the Life of E. Lynn Harris


Yesterday, I received an email from Victoria Christopher Murray (see below)that I would like to pass along. This Friday, September 25th, we need to all go out and buy at least one copy or more, if possible of E. Lynn's book Mama Dearest. I think this is a wonderful tribute to such a wonderful man.

Let's help Kimberla and Victoria with their effort to put Mama Dearest on the New York Times Bestseller list in the #1 position.

To view a very touching tribute video please click the link below:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/mpd/permalink/m1L5IA0T49KZPC

E. Lynn was more than an author. He was a father, a friend, and a man who loved his fans! On Friday, September 25th, we have the opportunity to give back to the man who gave so much to us. Please join Victoria Christopher Murray and Kimberla Lawson Roby as they lead a tribute to E. Lynn, celebrate the release of his latest novel, Mama Dearest, and participate in the drive to make Mama Dearest #1 on the New York Times list. Kim and Victoria will be at Borders - 931 Capital Centre Blvd. Largo, Maryland at 7:00PM. 301-499-2173

Authors will be leading tributes around the country, so please pass the word. If they are not in your city, please go out on Friday and purchase a copy (or three) of Mama Dearest. Helping E. Lynn make #1 is our little way of saying, "Thank you!" to this wonderful man.

Tribute Tour:
BALTIMORE, MD
Barnes & Noble @ 7:00 pm
1819 Reisterstown Road
Phone: 410- 415-5758
Hosted by: Tracie Howard

BIRMINGHAM, AL
Books-A-Million @ 7:00 pm
140 Wildwood Pkwy
Phone: 205-942-4220
Hosted by: Brandon Hammons

CLEVELAND, OH
Joseph Beth @ 7:00 pm
Legacy Village
24519 Cedar Road
Phone: 216- 912-1975
Hosted by: Lolita Files

CHICAGO, IL
Borders @ 7:00 pm
2210 W. 95th Street
Phone: 773-445-5471
Hosted by: Yolanda Joe

DALLAS, TX
Barnes & Noble @ 7:00 pm
7700 West Northwest Hwy
Phone: 214-739-1124
Hosted by: Mary B. Morrison

DETROIT, MI
Borders @ 7:00 pm
5601 Mercury Drive
Dearborn, MI 48126
Phone: 313-271-4441
Hosted by: Terrance Dean

HOUSTON, TX
Barnes & Noble @ 7:00 pm
7626 Westheimer
Phone: 713-783-6016
Hosted by: ReShonda Tate Billingsley

JACKSONVILLE, FL
Books-A-Million @ 7:00 pm
25A 1910 Wells Road
Orange Park, FL
Phone: 904-215-2300
Hosted by: Tina McElroy Ansa

LITTLE ROCK, AK
Presented by Pyramid Books
The Mosaic Templars Cultural Center @ 6:30 pm
500 West Ninth Street
Phone: 501-372-5824
Hosted by: Celia Anderson and Rhonda Holmes

LIVINGSTON, NJ
Barnes & Noble @ 7:00 pm
Livingston Mall
112 Eisenhower Parkway
Phone: 973-758-1310
Hosted by: Karen Hunter, Dr. LaJoyce Brookshire and Karen Thomas

LOS ANGELES, CA
ESO Won Books @ 7:00 pm
4311 Degnan Blvd.
Phone: 323-290-1048
Hosted by: Tananarive Due

NEW ORLEANS, LA
Afro-American Book Stop @ 5:30 pm
7056 Read Blvd
Phone: 504-243-2436
Hosted by: Clarence Nero and Ms. Dupre

NEW YORK. NY
Borders @ 7:00 pm
10 Columbus Circle
Phone: 212- 823-9775
Hosted by: Erika Kendrick and Sean James

PHILADELPHIA, PA
Borders 21 @ 12:30 pm
1 S. Broad, Suite 100
Phone: 215-568-7400
Hosted by: Brenda L. Thomas

SAVANNAH, GA
Barnes & Noble @ 7:00 pm
7804 Abercorn Extension
Phone: 912-353-7757
Hosted by: Dr. Bertice Berry



Thursday, September 17, 2009

Finally a Full-time Writer

It's hard to believe that my last blog post was in February, and I'm not sure when my next one will be. I'm really not a blogger and I have been extremely busy writing full-time. The road to becoming a full-time writer has not been easy. Nor did it happen the way I envisioned.

As of yesterday, my next novel that will be released in April 2010 went into the editing phase and I am begining to work on a new manuscript. Looking back over what has transpired over the past six months or so since my last post I really shouldn't be surprised that it has taken me this long to write again. For those who have followed my writing career since 2002 when I released my first self-published novel, Memories of Yesterday, you may recall that I have always maintained a full-time job. Even after securing a publishing deal with a major publishing company, I continued to work full-time. I wrote in the evenings and on the weekends, while I dreamed of the day I could finally quit my job and do what I loved. I kept the faith. Something was going to give or I probably would. But I was determined not to give up my dream.

So I was at work one day, several months ago, and we were all pulled into a few different conference rooms to watch President Obama address the nation on the automobile crisis and looming bankruptcy. As I sat patiently, anticipating the fate of both GM and Chrysler (our company had a personal stake with one of the two automakers), I learned from the President that the company I worked for was no longer viable. The company I had worked for had also received a Federal bailout and they were seeking additional funding. As an employee, I didn't really fear the future of the company because the company I worked for had always prided itself in avoiding layoffs at all cost. But on that day I learned that the government would not be supplying any additional funding to my employer. Instead, GMAC would be doing the automobile financing for both GM and Chrysler. My eyes immediately scanned the room. Circling the conference table for a facial expression from any of my co-workers. Was any one else as surprised as I at what the President had just said? No one appeared to be. So for a moment, I wondered, did the President really just take my employer out of business or was I hearing him say what deep down I was hoping for?

Most people don't want to lose their job and I am no exception, but deep down I didn't want to continue working there either.

But I must emphasize, I had some very good times with that company. Moving from Detroit, the city I love, but at the time I desperately needed to leave, and relocating me to New York, Kansas, Texas, and Florida over a ten year period. Before I obtained a publishing deal with a major publisher the money I earned through my full-time job allowed me to self-publish two books. It was because of that job that I even started writing. I'd decided to finally pursue my long time dream of writing after I'd relocated and found myself in strange cities with few friends. It was only then that I decided to power on my computer and begin to create fictional worlds to occupy my spare time.

As many jobs go, my job wasn't perfect...it also wasn't my passion...but it served a great purpose in my life. And now it's gone. I've always believed the saying, everything happens for a reason. That doesn't mean whatever happens won't feel scary, because not having a job can be very scary at times. But I'm holding on to my faith and I'm officially writing full-time. Though, not the way I'd imagined I would be. Not because my books have sold millions of copies and I can afford to. No. But there aren't too many jobs out there and besides, I really want to...I've always wanted to write full-time. So now, here's my opportunity. Let's see what I make of it.